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More same-sex couples line up for marriage licenses

11:31 AM PST on Thursday, March 4, 2004

By ABE ESTIMADA , TERESA BELL and JIM PARKER, kgw.com Staff

Gay and lesbian couples lined up outside the Multnomah County building for the second day in a row Thursday, after commissioners began allowing same-sex unions by issuing marriage licenses to gays for the first time in Oregon history.

Oregon's governor was quick to question the county's interpretation of state law Wednesday and opposition began brainstorming ways to block the same-sex marriages. A group called The Defense of Marriage Coalition said it plans to file for an injunction Friday or Monday to try and block the same-sex unions.

“I have never seen a political decision made in such an arrogant fashion," said attorney Kelly Clark, a spokesperson for the group.

Record number of licenses issued Wednesday

Waiting in the cold and steady rain, hundreds of same-sex couples circled the Multnomah County building in southeast Portland throughout the day on Wednesday, waiting for the county to issue them a government license certifying their marriage.

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Joshua Devlin (left) and David Moreno kiss while waiting in line to get their marriage license at the Multnomah County Building in southeast Portland. (kgw.com photo/Antonia Giedwoyn)

Every time a license was issued at the county office, people cheered. At the close of business Wedneday evening, the county sold a record 422 licenses. The previous one day record for handing out marriage licenses in the county was 68.

Multnomah County's license issuing also more than doubled the 180 marriage licenses handed out on the first day last month that they were made available to gay and lesbian couples in San Francisco.

With licenses in their hands, some Portland couples wasted no time, exchanging vows outside the county building on Hawthorne Boulevard. Others overwhelmed the First Unitarian Church in downtown Portland to tie the knot; the church said it needed an appointment to perform ceremonies.

And more than 75 same-sex couples wed Wednesday afternoon at the Keller Auditorium, normally the site of traveling Broadway shows. A line of gay and lesbian couples inched their way up two flights of plushly red-carpeted stairs to exchange their long-awaited vows.

Rabbi Ariel Stone-Halpern canceled her schedule so she could volunteer to perform the marriages there, saying "I respect human love in all its forms and reject dehumanization in the name of God."

Two more couples said they fulfilled life-long dreams of being married when they were wedded by a former Oregon Supreme Court Judge on the packed, 21st floor of the downtown Portland Hilton.

“I really do think things happen for a reason and the way that happens,” said Portlander Mary Li, who married her partner of four years, Rebecca Kennedy, at the Hilton. The two are also raising a baby daughter whom they adopted.

“As a little girl, I grew up wanting the big white wedding with the flowers and the train and all those kinds of things, and we may still go there,” Li, 40, said. “But right now, this is the absolute perfect way to happen, in every way, shape and form.”

The decision by most of the Multnomah County Commissioners to grant licenses to gay couples wanting to be married opened the way for Li and Kennedy and hundreds of other couples in Oregon to exchange vows.

While two, self-proclaimed street preachers spewed streams of vitriol at gays and lesbians celebrating their partnerships with champagne and bright flowers, commissioners Diane Linn, Lisa Naito, Maria Rojo de Steffey and Serena Cruz explained that the county authorized the granting of the licenses after their legal counsel and another independent law firm determined it would be unconstitutional to deny them.

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Same-sex marriages were performed by a county judge on the 21st floor of the Hilton Hotel in Portland, Oregon. The first to exchange vows were Mary Li and Rebecca Kennedy. (kgw.com photo/Antonia Giedwoyn)

At least two commissioners said they requested the legal opinion about a month ago after being approached by gay rights groups.

Each commissioner said during a Wednesday morning news conference that they were duty-bound to uphold the Oregon Constitution, which guarantees equal rights under the law for all citizens regardless of their gender, race or sexual orientation.

“I do join my colleagues, the three women behind me today, and give my personal support for these basic rights,” said Linn, the county chairwoman. “I do intend to celebrate the marriages that will occur based on this decision today, and that is my spiritual position, also.”

The commissioners’ controversial decision added fuel to an increasingly fiery debate about same-sex marriages in Oregon and across the country. Linn said she’s already received “hateful” messages from some opponents of the county’s decision.

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Stephen Knox and Eric Warshaw were the second couple to be married at Portland's Hilton Hotel by a county judge. (kgw.com photo/Antonia Giedwoyn)

And it already faces some opposition from the governor’s office to some conservative Christian groups who are considering filing suit for an injunction to stop these unions.

The commissioners, who represent mostly liberal Multnomah County, said they sent copies of their legal opinion to other counties.

“It is our opinion that every single county in the state is responsible for upholding the (Oregon) Constitution in the same manner as we are, and that they must do the same thing that we did today,” Cruz said.

State may intervene

Oregon Governor Ted Kulongoski directed the state attorney general’s office to examine Multnomah County’s opinion. Attorney General Hardy Myers said a review of the state's marriage laws was underway late Wednesday and said his office would "endeavor to address these issues as quickly as we can," although a decision from his office was not expected before next week.

As for Kulongoski, a former Oregon Supreme Court Justice and state attorney general -- he seriously questioned whether the county’s interpretation of the state statute on marriage was valid.

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Several protesters gathered outside the Multnomah County Building in southeast Portland, where gay couples lined up in the rain to get marriage licenses. (kgw.com photo/Antonia Giedwoyn)

"Reasonable people can differ, but I think when you read it (the state marriage statute) at the time in history when the statute was written I think it is clear they were thinking about a man and a woman getting married," Kulongoski told reporters. “I think that was the purpose of the statute."

County comes under fire

Perhaps equally controversial to Multnomah County’s decision to grant marriage licenses was the method by which the commission reached its decision.

Chairwoman Linn's decision came without an official vote from the four other county commissioners — but with the explicit support of all but one of the other elected officials.

"This is about a legal opinion," she told reporters. "I recognize that this is a complex and controversial issue that can split our community... but the county will comply with the constitution."

Kevin Neely, spokesman for Attorney General Myers, said the state had received no advance warning or consultation from county leaders.

A newspaper editorial unloaded on the commissioners for not including much of the public in its discussions on the marriage licenses. Notably missing from the commissioners’ news conference on Wednesday morning was Lonnie Roberts, who represents much of the more conservative region of East Multnomah County.

Roberts blasted his fellow commissioners, saying he was never consulted about the decision to issue gay marriage licenses. Roberts said he didn’t learn of the county’s decision until Tuesday night when reporters phoned him for comment.

“I felt that this was a clandestine approach to what should be open government,” Roberts said.

Cruz admitted before reporters that she and the other commissioners left Roberts out.

“We have lessons to be learned about this process,” Cruz said. “But we value our relationship with commissioner Roberts…We didn’t work with him on this one, but again, we will work with him on many (issues) in the future.”

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Same-sex couples line up outside the Multnomah County Building in southeast Portland, waiting to get marriage licenses. (kgw.com photo/Antonia Giedwoyn)

Oregon Republican Party chairman Kevin Mannix said it was “highly unfortunate that Multnomah County commissioners have taken it upon themselves to re-interpret 160 years of Oregon law and create a new definition of marriage to include same sex couples.”

“This runs counter to the well-established legal principle in this state that marriage reflects a committed relationship between a husband and a wife,” said Mannix, himself a lawyer.

“If the commissioners want to redefine marriage, they should present a proposal to the legislature or initiate a ballot measure. Ultimately this issue should be referred to the ballot so that Oregonians can decide for themselves."

Cruz defended what seemed like a quick decision to change Multnomah County policy, which has long allowed civil unions but not gay marriages until now.

"When we know a law is unconstitutional, it is our job to change it," she said.

The commissioners compared their decision to grant same-sex marriage licenses to the Supreme Court’s decision in 1967 to throw out laws barring interracial marriages.

“For all my life, I have worked to secure the rights of all people,” commissioner Rojo de Steffey said. “I will continue that work. My sense of justice and my Christian faith allow me no other course.”

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One of the more vocal protesters was restrained by law-enforcement authorities after yelling at gay couples and reportedly spitting at them outside the Multnomah County Building. (kgw.com photo/Antonia Giedwoyn)

Couples besiege county building

As the debate over gay marriages gets underway in Oregon, couples waiting for licenses continued to line up outside Multnomah County’s building in southeast Portland.

The first in the growing line of couples outside the county building to get licenses was Christine Tanner, who won a landmark Oregon Court of Appeals ruling in 1998 requiring all state and local governments in Oregon to offer spousal benefits to the same-sex domestic partners of their employees.

Tanner, a nursing professor at Oregon Health & Science University, said she and her partner have been together for 19 years and raised two children together.

"There are only so many big events in people's lives — birth, marriage and death," said Tanner, who waited overnight in front of a county office in a rainbow-colored lawn chair. "It's a big deal. For us, this is symbolic."

Tanner, however, gave up her place in line to Bonnie Tinker, a longtime gay rights activist and leader of the group "Love Makes a Family," who said she has been with her partner for 26 years and have raised three children together.

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Gay couples wait in the rain in line outside the Multnomah County Building in southeast Portland, where county officials issued same-sex marriage licenses. (kgw.com photo/Antonia Giedwoyn)

"It wasn't until recently that people were allowed to choose their spouses," Tinker said, referring to past traditions and customs around the world that include arranged marriages and prohibitions on interracial marriages.

"People forget what a radical idea that is."

"I grew up Catholic — there were bouquets and bridesmaids and gowns and churches," added Sandra Naranjo, 31, who sat in a lawn chair outside the county building all night with her partner of 10 years to get a marriage license. "But in the end, it's not about the wedding. It's about the rights."

(The Associated Press contributed to this report)

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